​​ L.O.V.E. Marriage Counseling 

ALL THREE VERSIONS

Going Solo, Traditional and Guided

L.O.V.E., the only 4-letter word you need to HAVE AND TO HOLD both you and your partner's well-being and happiness together.

The word Love has only 4 letters, one syllable, but an infinite number of connotations and meanings. Love has become so vague and ambiguous in usage that it is often meaningless. Love can describe your feelings for self, another person, an animal and even a pair of shoes.

This ambiguity of Love affects how couples try to improve their relationships. They may say they "love" one another, but really don't like each other. Resent piles up and things go from bad to worse.

This is where I come in:

I teach couples the real meaning of love in relationships. Each of the four letters stands for an important couple's skill. As you work through these skills as a team and with reciprocity, you'll find your relationship on the path towards well-being and happiness. 

Janice offers three models of L.O.V.E. marriage counseling to fit your needs:

• GOING SOLO
• TRADITIONAL
  
• GUIDED

GOING SOLO MARRIAGE COUNSELING

Yes, you read correctly. This is an oxymoron that can save your marriage when only one wants to go. 

I hear from clients all the time. "My marriage is in shambles and falling apart, but my spouse refuses to come to therapy with me."  What to do??II

The answer is Going Solo Marriage Counseling and it works just fine.

Why Going Solo Marriage Counseling works:

• the focus is on the relationship; not the individual;
  
• changes made by one changes the dynamic of the whole;
  
• when one person shows the way, it is easier for the other to join;
  
• action is more meaningful than words.
  

Criteria for Success:

• never, ever bad-mouth your spouse;
  
• come to therapy with the intent to learn, and apply it at home;
  
• no substance abuse, domestic violence or cheating involved;
  
• both partners want to continue and work on their marriage.
  

Don't expect to spend the session venting how awful your spouse is. Save that for individual therapy. Going Solo focuses on positive strategies/tools that can be implemented immediately to strengthen the marital bond.

​TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE COUNSELING
Traditional marriage counseling where both partners come to therapy sessions together.
Janice starts by asking each what they hope for by coming to counseling and how committed they are in achieving such. 
Next, equal time will be given for each to tell what is happening between them from their own perspective.
Then the work begins! Couples work as a team as Janice gives concrete strategies and tools to meet your goals for a strong, healthy and loving relationship.

GUIDED MARRIAGE COUNSELING

In this model, we begin with an introduction to the program and what couples will learn using my book, Framework Marriage Counseling. Couples create their unique 'picture' within the 'Frames' as  Janice guides them through the 12 Frames towards a loving and happy relationship.

​Note: Clients can change from one model to another at any time.

For more information on L.O.V.E. Marriage Counseling     

contact Janice at 408 596-4810 or jlshapiro875@gmail.com.

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Janice Shapiro, MA, LMFT California Lic #86051

Psychotherapist for Marriage, Individual and Family Happiness

TO HAVE AND TO HOLD        ​

TO HAVE is a promise to receive each OTHER with unconditional acceptance. ​

TO HOLD is a promise of physical affection and tenderness, a vow to be available in body and soul, a promise to cherish, value and protect each OTHER forever.